Condolences
| Jenni |
Dear Murray Family |
June 5, 2007 |
No words can express the pain you feel when loosing a loved one. I went to school with Jason, Jhon, and Jeanie and have lost contact with them through the years. Although I am not in contact with the family any longer, I still feel your pain and will remember you in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all and this is a wonderful sight that has brought tears.
| Forever in my heart |
Always on my mind |
May 25, 2007 |
Jason bring me peace tonight as I lie and think of you. You are always on my mind. I will never forget the trueness in your heart and the gentleness in your touch. You will always be with me. Love never dies. Show me the shining star that brings me straight to your love. Forever in my heart Jason. Your memory will keep me warm until we meet again in Heaven. I know in my heart you will be waiting. Only a few pictures I have reminding me of you. Only a precious few memories in my soul.
| Debi Collins |
A friend through crisis |
May 23, 2007 |
Thinking of you today John and Brenda. The poem "A Daddy's Day at school" brought tears to my eyes. My daughter is a second grade teacher and she witnesses situations such as were mentioned in the poem. Heartbreaking that Jason's daughters won't have him physically, but heartwarming, to know that he's always, always in their hearts. God Bless ya'll! (Yea, I'm a true southern girl from NC and we do say ya'll....HA!) Take care. Deb
| Tricia and Family |
Jason |
May 8, 2007 |
Jason,
Though I never met you, you were my sister's brother-in-law and I heard alot about you. You are greatly missed by all who knew you! I have two brothers and I could not imagine the pain of losing one, but I can see the pain in John's face when he talks about you. He loved you so much and misses you so much more. I know you are in Heaven watching over John, Brenda, and their kids, as well as your own kids. Your family will forever be in my prayers.
| Debi Collins |
A friend who cares |
May 7, 2007 |
Hi John,
I posted a picture of my sister Gayle, on Andrew's site under "shared memories." She died 13 months before Andrew after being diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. Losing a child is unexplainable..the void just won't go away, but the same is true with a sibling. It's different, but only in ways that make a sibling and a child different parts of your life anyway. Losing Gayle was similar to suddenly being able to see out of only one eye or having one arm, one leg and a total inability to express myself. She was so much a part of my life and everyday, I thank God for our years together. I hated to see her suffer, but I had her admitted to Hospice and pain control was never an issue. I had 8 weeks and 2 days with her to prepare and to say "Good-Bye, I love you." Andrew walked out of a door and left us forever, until the day we meet in Heaven above. That's the way that John left you and every sole that loves him and are now left behind to grieve. It's taken longer for me to actually accept Andrew's absence because it was so sudden and tragic. Please know that I do understand and that I care for you and your family. Love your children, hold them tight and take more pictures than you ever thought you would need. All my prayers are sent your way....Debi
| Debi Collins |
Another Angel's Momma |
May 4, 2007 |
John and Brenda,
Thank you so much for all of the lovely tributes that you send to Andrew. I've learned through this great and painful loss, that friends become unbiased and bonded regardless of distance, race or creed....all secondary to the fact that a piece of our hearts are in Heaven now. It's sad, but Lord, I am so blessed to have such tremendous support. Hope I can be there for both of you as well as all of the others who are grieving. Take care and may God Bless You Always!
Debi
| To My Brother |
Love Always John Brian |
May 2, 2007 |
This candle burns for My Grandma Kincade, Grandpa Shroyer and My Brother Jason Murray. I miss you all and Love You very much. Let your light shine together in HEAVEN!!!!
| Bridget |
Missing You! |
April 26, 2007 |
I feel your pain. I wish we would not know what it feel's like. How it hurt's so bad. Jason and my son Keith Elwart are such special gift's we had in our live's. Where we go from here I don't know. But I think Jason and Keith are looking down on us with such Love. Family and friend's try to help but they can not know how much the pain of missing them goes right to our Heart's. I am thankful for everyday I had with my son. Bless you and your Family and Friend's!
Love Bridget!!!!!!
| To Jason |
From your brother and sister in law |
April 25, 2007 |
Missing you Jason. Thinking of you Always. Love, The Murray's in Fisk.
| Debi |
Just to say I care! |
April 16, 2007 |
John and Brenda,
Just wanted to let you know that you're still in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you so much for the beautiful and heartfelt condolences that you send to Andrew. Until I created the memorial site for Andrew, I had no idea how many wonderful, kind and sympathetic people would actually visit the site and leave such kind words for us all. Such a sad way to bond and meet new people, but support groups are such a positive thing. You just can't possibly know unless you've lived such a tragic, sudden and unexpected loss. You are both winners...so sorry that Jason is no longer here with you, but he is here...you just can't see him. He still loves you and protects you, and with time, you'll fee that in your heart. Take care.....Debi
| Someone who cares |
Til we meet again |
April 16, 2007 |
Til we meet again Jason, eternal love to your brother and family. Words can not express how much you are missed. x x x
| To Jason |
With Love from your brother |
April 15, 2007 |
You were the world to the ones who knew you! Jason, you are missed so much. Love you
| Debi Collins |
A new and understanding friend |
April 12, 2007 |
John,
What an absolutely breath taking tribute to your brother. How painful and new this must be for you. My first experience with death was on June 18th, 2004 when my best friend and only sister died of pancreatic cancer. Thirteen months laters, Andrew died and 8 months later, my Daddy died. So, we are all bonded by this mysterious thing that at some point will create a need for each of us to question our own mortaility. In retrospect, I'm so happy that Andrew has someone a little older, a bit more mature and someone who loved the Lord ,with him in God's Heaven. Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts. May God Bless You...Hello to Brenda as well and love to your family.
Debi Collins
| Christie |
Letter |
April 7, 2007 |
Didnt know where of if I should put this on here, but it was sent to Marissa from a friend of mine, if it is already on here, just delete it, just thought it was nice ....
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
http://www.ruthann1.com
| Debi |
Just needed to vent! (sorry) |
April 5, 2007 |
We realize that we, as have hundreds of others, have created a loving tribute as a memorial for our deceased loved ones. Some of the poetry that both John/Brenda have on Jason's site, came directly from my son's memorial. They asked and I had absolutely no reservations in allowing them to use the poems. "I" did not write the poetry, nor do I have copywrite advantages that others don't have. I found the poetry on a internet website for "GRIEVING" AND "BEREAVED" FAMILIES. The words make sense, they ease broken hearts and somehow, they say what we all feel but couldn't find a way to actually speak the words. My son didn't particularly like poetry, but he did love music and loved to sing. Isn't that a form of poetry; artistic and beautiful and sole felt? I visit various sites often and hear the same songs, see the same poetry and find the same brokenhearted families, regardless of race, creed or age. Please, let these people grieve!
| tylinski family from germany |
to john and familyW |
April 4, 2007 |
We are prayin for you
| Debi Collins |
Thanks from my heart! |
April 3, 2007 |
Brenda, thank you so much for your heartfelt words. Like yourself, I have no idea what would inspire a person to intentionally inflict pain on a grieving family. I was absolutely speechless when I inadvertently came across the messages left on Andrew's site. I'm so sorry that your family has been forced to deal with such infantile and heartless behavior as well. As I said on Andrew's site, the poor sick person or person(s) must have no life at all if their consciousness will allow them to write nasty, painful comments on a memorial website!
Your kindness overwhelms me and please know that I am thinking of you and John and your entire family. May Jason and Andrew shower us with love, hugs and kisses. Thank you again!
Debi
| Brenda |
For you and Andrew |
April 2, 2007 |
Jason, just like this one, someone has been getting on Andrew's site also and writing nasty things about his family. Debi is grief-stricken as well, and obviously someone thinks she made his site for attention. She needs a way to deal with her pain of losing her son just like anyone else that has lost a loved one. Let Andrew know his family loves him and is just trying to deal with their pain, as we will let others know down here. Thank you for listening. You were always good at that.
| Brenda |
To all of Jason's family |
March 30, 2007 |
I was sitting around looking through pictures, and saw alot of you guys. Alot of Jason and his family. His parents, grandparents, sister and brother, aunts, uncles, children, cousins. I wish things were different for you all. Jason was a solid rock for his family. We all take for granted what we have. That should not happen. Jason had alot of good times with the people he loved. He worked hard for his career. It wasnt just a job to him, it was something he loved. A passion for him. I know it is difficult to understand, why him?? And so often we question that. But why not him. He was everything God wants in Heaven. He was exactly what God had prepared him to be. He is missed so much on earth. Some people dont know what to do without him, some just miss talking to him, or working with him. Some miss the love he gave, the hugs and kisses. Some miss the phone calls, the boat rides, the ballgames. Others miss their special times with him. Yet, some just miss knowing he would always be there if he was needed. And the thought that he was close by. I know he is still close by though. You see it in the eyes of his children, and know it in the stories that his family tells. You know he is here when you look up at the stars at night and hear Miranda so sure that her daddy is up there with the stars. He is always in our hearts and minds. Jason, I hate so bad what happened to you. I know God reached down and took your hand, and kept you from suffering that day. Only he knows why you, why that day, why that hour, minute, second. And only God knows when we will see you again. Forever in our hearts!!! Love, John and Brenda Murray
| Brenda Jean |
Jason |
March 26, 2007 |
Jason, your kids are all so sweet. Raven got home today with balloons and a teddy bear from them. She didnt even know who they were from. She thought they were from her other dad and stepmom. When I told her who they were from, she got so excited and said maybe they can come to my party too. You have wonderful kids. Thank you all.
| To John and the family |
We are praying for you |
March 23, 2007 |
If life seems to have taken a turn for the worse, look up to Jesus. If you dont seem to have any tears left to cry, look to the lord. If you dont know who to turn to, turn to the savior. He will guide you through this time of sadness and show you a little sunshine. Remember, God doesnt give you more on your plate than you can handle. So, dont dwell on the bad things in life, and thank the Lord for all the wonderful. Im praying for you and your family. Live your life one day at a time and thank God everyday for them babies of yours and a good woman to stand by you. You know your brother was proud of you and still is now, as he watches over you and your family. Just remember he is your guardian angel. Talk to him often just as you do the Lord. He will guide you and be with you always. Take care of them babies.
| Debi collins |
someone who understands |
March 23, 2007 |
Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers on Andrew's site. Every prayer matters, believe me. I pray for Jason in Heaven and hope that his body, sole and spirit are whole again. So sad that he was so close to becoming a registered nurse. I have always admired paramedics as well. (I've been a respiratory therapist for many years!) Isn't it ironic that he saved so many lives, yet his own wasn't able to be revived? So terriably sad for him and for all of you, his grieving loved ones. My prayers are for yu as well, that God may lift you up during this difficult time and hold you tight when you need it and let you run free when you have the strength to do so. My love and prayers always...Debi Collins (of Andrew Collins)
| Debi |
My baseball Angels Mom |
March 20, 2007 |
To all of Jason's family, please accept my most sincere condolences in the loss of your beloved Jason. The void of losing a son, a brother, a best friend...it is all so devastating and your loss was so recent. I believe that Jason is looking down and smiling with love at the memories he shared with you. In addition, I'm certain that this tribute means so much to him. Times are tough following a death and unfortunately, that hill may become more difficult to climb with time. Our son, Andrew, died of massive head injuries sustained in an auto accident. March 16th marked the 20th month since his death. I still miss him so bad it hurts, but the days are easier to deal with and the reality of it all has begun to make more sense. Please know that I will pray for you and your family. Please visit Andrew at www.andrew-collins.last-memories.com.
Debi Collins
| Rosa Dye |
It Hurts But you can get through this |
March 13, 2007 |
Uncle John, Aunt Donna,
There are no words to offer you that will ease your pain. This is the worst thing any parent can possiby go through. I know your pain. It's been 8 years since i had to hand my Amanda back to God and 2 yaers since my little granddaughter Cheyanne went to be cradled in God's Love. One of the things i have learned is hold on to eachother and never lose faith, I want you to know i am only a phone call away. I love you guys
rosa
| Leanne |
The Family |
March 11, 2007 |
I love you all so much and I just want you to know I think of you all every day. Your always on my mind and in my heart. Many hugs and kisses to all of you!
| Brenda |
its me again |
March 6, 2007 |
I know this isnt a condolence but there doesnt seem to be anywhere to put this, so here it is k. I went to the college today. John and I had been planning on me quitting my job and going to school for something better. So, the plans came, not in the way we had ever in our wildest nightmares thought. The day you went to heaven was the last day I worked at Nordyne. Of course, John had quit already. About a month ago, John went on his first trip to his new job. Guess where, Virginia. So, the second part of our plan had went as it should. Today, John and I had discussed the third part of the plan, and it went pretty smooth. I went to the college today and got started on registering for school. Everything went well, I figured out what I was going for, and no Jason, sorry, it wasnt for a paramedic or a registered nurse. That was your field. But the one I chose, I think you would be proud. I was a little confused and worried about it but when I came home this afternoon and shared with my husband, he took all worry I had away. He was excited. It is only a 2 year course but its for starters. John says it will make a good career for me. Im proud of the steps we have taken for our family, like you did for yours. I know you are proud and excited too. We had a cookout today. It was a beautiful day and your mom and dad and grandma came and had supper with us. We talked about school and how to do this with the kids running around being kids but anyway, Ill write more later. I already have a paper to write for school. Crazy huh, not even in school yet and already have homework. Miss you.
| Brenda |
things are good today |
March 2, 2007 |
Hey Jason. John had a good day today. Its hard getting him to do anything anymore but he went to my moms with me today. We sang on the way down there and when a song came on that you liked or made him think about you, he turned it up. He told stories about you a little today. It was ok for him today. I hope tomorrow is a little easier for him. I have learned more about you in these past few weeks than I have heard in the 6 years I have known you. I hope it continues. Love ya, Brenda
| A family member that remembers |
How are you guys holding up |
February 28, 2007 |
We wonder how the family is doing? Jason was a great man and will be missed by so many. We pray for you guys every day for the strength to go on with Jason only in your hearts and memories now. This is a lovely page. A nice way to remember and to share with ALL of Jasons friends and family. The people he grew up with. The ones that knew him his whole life. The ones that have the most memories, the memories of him as a baby, then as a boy, and finally as a young man. Jason was wonderful throughout his whole life and you need to keep remembering him as often as you possibly can. Dont let him go. He was a sweet young man. God knew what he was doing when he took this life. He wanted someone as special as Jason to be by his side. My God be with you John Brian, and see you through this. As he will also be with your mom and dad and jeannie through this. We love you guys and pray for you.
| Brenda Murray |
My brother and friend |
February 25, 2007 |
Jason, you know we didnt start out seeing eye to eye. You felt like I came in and took your brother from you. And I know it was because you loved him more than anything and you was just wanting to protect your brother from any hurt that he could be heading towards. Thats how you were. Always trying to look out for the ones that you loved. And everyone loved you so much that they ended up in a tug of war with each other over you. It seemed like noone ever had enough time to spend with you. You was so busy with your studying and school and work that you hardly had time to get out and enjoy life with your family. And everyone understood that was the kind of man you had grown to be. Your parents molded you to be a great man and to be a family man. You sister helped to give you the softness in your heart and your brother made you a responsible man always knowing that you would be there for him no matter what kind of trouble he was ever in. When I met you, you was already all of those things. Loving, caring, responsible man who looked out for everyone. I am very greatful that I met such a wonderful person. I looked up to you and hope that you know I will do what I can to take care of your little baby brother just like you always did. And he loves you so much. So, until we both see you in heaven, you can rest in peace knowing your job on earth is done. The babies miss you. John and Donna miss you. And your brother and I miss you. We love you Jason so very much.
| Aunt Juley |
Til we see Jason again |
February 24, 2007 |
Until we walk through heaven's gates and see Jason again, we need to hold dear all the yesterday's we shared with him and thank God for loaning him to us for even a short time. He touched so many lives and will be missed by us all. I pray every day for peace for his mother and father, brother and sister and his wife and children.
Thank you to God for welcoming him home again.
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